Positive confrontation is when people can bring up a subject that is typically deemed as negative or can trigger negative responses constructively. Many times, toxic relationships continue because people or the person who is suffering from the toxicity avoids confrontation. However, confrontation can be a helpful tool to mend broken relationships when done correctly with pure intentions of mindful healing. Some ways to engage in positive confrontation are to always remain calm, be empathetic towards yourself and the parent, find common ground, and communicate effectively and respectfully.

Knowing how to set healthy boundaries with emotionally immature parents is something that mature adults must implement in their lives. No one chooses their birth parents, and no one can predict their relationships with them. While the biblical and societal expectation is for children to honor their parents, it’s also the expectation for parents not to provoke their children, no matter how young or old they are. Parents and children should honor and respect each other and foster positive relationships. Fostering those healthy relationships is important to everyone’s well-being. No matter the age, children need proper nurturing from their parents in many aspects of their lives. Adults must learn to hold themselves accountable for their emotions and interactions with each other, especially interactions with family. Creating healthy boundaries for yourself and making them clear to your toxic loved ones is essential to mental, spiritual, emotional, and familial health. Learning to manage and interact with emotionally immature parents, or people in general, is something mature adults must learn how to do to maintain their peace and sustain healthy relationships. Setting healthy boundaries can foster the necessary change to bring parent-child relationships back to the standard God has set in place for the families He’s created.

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